The Sport of Dating

Update - A Change

I’m tired. I really am. And this is going to change my strategy for a while to say the least. You see, I usually like to go out and have a great time when I pick up girls. This, however, usually ends up with me drinking too much, among other things, because I have no self-control. Actually, I do have self control; I just choose not to use it. Why would I? I mean, if you are going to go out to party, why half-ass things? But as of late, it’s just getting to be a bit too much. I need a calming influence in my life; unfortunately, I have yet to meet one out here. Maybe I need to hang out with more boring people. Anyway, I am going to try and take a more calm approach to the upcoming weekends. (You may remember I was going to do this last month when I realized that I was going to pay out the ass to the tax man, and thus would not have any cash to get drunk. However, the only thing that lead to was finding cheap ways to get sauced. (I wish I could use my problem solving skills for good.)) So we’ll see how this works out.

So, #9 and #10 were last week, and I have come to some conclusions about them. I was going to write about #10’s good qualities this week, but then I decided against it. The reason: #9 was a better fit than she was. So if you know of something better, why dwell on the less good? I will make a nice text to #10 and call it quits with her from there. As for #9, she was great. I would like to get to know her better, but I don’t know if she feels likewise. I left her a message recently, but haven’t gotten a call-back since she went home for a visit. I’m not sure exactly what would have gone wrong, but I am pretty sure she was still hung up on a 4-year relationship that ended six months ago. Oh well, its time to see how the new “Relaxed Chuff” picks up this next week. I have a feeling he’ll do just fine.

posted by Chuff @ 2:14 PM